It’s weird to get feedback from a peer when you sense their framing is off.
It feels like you asked a motorcycle expert to give their opinion on a car design. It could work out. But sometimes it’s seems like their statements are “Yeah I don’t know…have you thought about removing some wheels? I think there’s too many wheels.”
“But we’re making a car.”
“Yeah, I get that. But definitely too many wheels. Is even the steering mechanism…a wheel as well? I don’t know…”
Dynamic Hypocrisy 